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My entire life revolved around pleasing. I would spend hours on the phone with them, while they would tell me what they needed me to do to myself in order to please. Even though I had never been with any of them in person, I was completely under their loving albeit long-distance control. But I still didn't realize that this made me a sub.
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Then I found a boyfriend who seemed very dominant. I was extremely aroused by his quiet but intense presence. But I soon came to realize that he houston gentlemans club not the loving dom I longed. He enjoyed abusing me. The pain he inflicted on me was not consensual. The rules loiking no sense. I was constantly girl choked during sex the verge of being punished, and I rarely understood why.
I felt lost and scared. I could not orgasm when we were. While in therapy there, I admitted my desires to find somebody who was dominant. I was told that this meant I was addicted to dominant man looking for married fuck sub controlled, and that maybe this was something stemming from my childhood. I was told that it made me a target for abusers, doimnant that in order for me to heal, I would have to get over this need.
Then I met my now husband. I told him about the abusive relationship I had had, and he was very sweet and kind. Sex with him was not exciting, but I assumed that it was because I was still healing from my previous relationship. I didn't realize yet that it was because he was the opposite of dominant.
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If my wonderful husband initiated sex, I would allow it, fake an orgasm to please him, and then roll over and go to sleep. Then Fifty Shades of Grey came.
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